Hi folks! It is time for us to return with another exciting topic, especially for young people. It has been observed that youngsters cannot tell the difference between good friends and bad friends. So, don’t worry; HimSim is here to guide you and help you to choose your friends wisely.
We are here to give you tips on how to choose your friends. OK, then!
You guys know exactly what friendship is, as it’s one of the purest relationships in the world. However, many people will be friendly to you on the surface but backstab you behind your back, and that’s disgusting. However, sometimes we can’t tell who’s a well-wisher and who’s pretending to be one.
We are listening to this hypothesis from childhood: “A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND IN DEED.”
Is that true? Honestly, we live in a time when people enjoy each other’s downfall more than their happiness.
Only a few people in the world know what friendship means and what it means to them. Consider the example of school life, which is the first stage of our lives. Our school life involves meeting many new people and making new friends. School life teaches us several valuable lessons that we can apply in our lives.
When you choose your friends, some stick with you and some leave. This is the stage of life before the struggle begins, and we get to know many people during this period. Often, the people we meet change our lives for the better or worse.
Even though college life lasts a lot shorter than school life, we are still exposed to some young people who can make us habitual to bad habits or attempt to ruin our life. As one reaches this critical point in life, one begins to see one’s true colors. Thus, choose your friends wisely.
Slowly Slowly, we come to the struggling phase of life and we lose a lot of friends just because at this stage, we get to know the double faces of all and sometimes we get betrayed by our fellow friends.
It isn’t important that whosoever is your close friend now will be your close friend for entire life or your well-wisher. Agree? It might be a case when your friend claims to be your well-wisher. However, we meet a few friends who come to your life and give it a new meaning yet, they are those 99% of 100%.
People say, without friends life is incomplete, and if you say we have lots of friends, yet imagine a scenario where they are Snake. Here, maturity is not your increasing number of friends, but, the maturity is to make that one friend who always remains by your side and when the time comes, will fight for the whole world for you.
You might think we shared every situation, but we didn’t tell you who’s real or who’s Snake. So, we won’t keep you in suspense. Let HimSim to further guide you further to choose your friends wisely.
Is Your Friend a Well Wisher or a Snake?
Bad Habit
Fake friends will always force you to consume harmful substances such as alcohol and drugs.
However, a true friend will never force you to adapt to dire circumstances and will never lead you in the wrong direction.
Although some of your real friends consume such things as well, the fact remains that they will not compel you to consume them.
Enjoy your success
Your fake friends will always pretend to be happy for your success, but they’ll backstab behind your back and change their behavior toward you.
When you have a true friend, your success is important to them, no matter how big or small it may be. Observe how your friends’ behavior changes (this will help you identify it)
Will Always Stand
A true friend will be by your side forever, but a fake friend pretends to be by your side only for a short time.
Never let you down
At some point in our lives, we will need a true friend to support us. You will always find a real friend who will support you, help you overcome your difficulties, and guide you as a teacher.
A fake friend will not care about your suffering, and without listening to the entire story, they will end up in the middle of your conversation by saying, “Hm, okay, and take care.”.
Summing Up – Choose your friends wisely or regret later
That’s all folks! Let us conclude this topic now, and we hope that you will be able to identify your real friends from here on out.
So, it is up to you to choose your friends wisely. Or, you will have to regret it later. This is because a friend has the potential to make or break you.
We live in a time when everyone feels the need for a trustworthy friend who can understand them and guide them in the right direction.
We understand this as young people (young adults) often face a lot of problems as ages 18 to 25 are when people can either take their lives in a positive or negative direction.
BAAT KADWI HAI PAR SACH HAI… So, choose your friends wisely.
Good luck with your future and feel free to contact us if you need any help with depression, relationships advice, or motivation. Contact your favorite motivational speaker HimSim at himsimu2607@gmail.com.
