Hey people! Him&Sim are back with our new blog. After the roasting blog, we are here to give you some of the essentials of life, not only for students who will be taking exams but also for those who are afraid to give them another attempt. Have you ever considered that this fear of failing to attempt is preventing you from reaching success?
In that sense, HimSim has expressed that there is no need to fear losing. This is true, no matter if you are about to take your exams or take a new step in your life. If you are a student whose exams are on their way or suffering from the same problem, it is estimated that eight out of ten students struggle before exams.
If you are still afraid of failure, what are you going to do? Do not be bothered; it’s just a piece of paper that will take you one step above your studies, but do not forget that real teachings come only from your life. There are many possible reasons for student fear, but let us first take a look at “Why do students fear failure?”
Why do students fear from getting failed?
What is it about today’s students that makes them fear failing? Are they strongly influenced by other people’s opinions or can they not consume knowledge? Many people believe that education is a burden in life. It’s common for people to compare, or they forget they’re studying to gain knowledge, not to get any type of certificate.
If you wish to learn, you should at least study to gain knowledge. If you will not get clear today, why do you worry? Tomorrow or today, you will gain knowledge, but it will remain with you. There will be no one to solicit your marks.
In the end, it’s not how many marks you receive in exams that matters, but what you gain in knowledge and how much you hold yourself in virtue. In your studies, seek to gain knowledge, since it will stay with you forever.
If you fear everything, then no one will be with you, but if you face your fear and are bold, then people will be with you. Make sure you invest your time in yourself and study so that you can achieve your goals and not just gain other people’s points of view. Let’s continue and find out what the most prevalent fear people have.
Biggest fear – What will the people say?
Generally speaking, people are most scared of what other people will say. Why do you care about others’ opinions when it is your life? If you want to succeed in life, stop avoiding people as it is their job to show you your downfall, and don’t forget one simple thing. Why does someone want you to succeed more than they do?
People will not change, they will continue to judge you, but it is your responsibility to not care. There’s an old saying that says to never be afraid to try, “Ya toh Kuch seekh jaoge ya fir jeet jaoge”. A failure is only one step back, but if you try again, you might be able to succeed. Slow progress is fine, but failing to try again after losing is not.
After failure, please, its a request. Don’t take the wrong step. After failing in the exam, some people think that we will not be able to succeed, now we will do this, or that, or end our life or anything. NEVER EVER TAKE SUCH STEP IN LIFE.
Ending your life is not a solution; it directly impacts your family. Never forget to play for yourself in this winning and losing in life. Life is yours; choose to live Happily. As it is said that “Jab Jeena hi har haal mein hai, toh muskura ke jeene mein kya nuksaan?”
If you tackle every situation, then the failure will also fail in front of you. On the contrary, if you will take the wrong step, you will consider a LOSER. Be brave, as brave ones don’t fear failure.
Teachings of life
No matter. How many books you read, the real lesson you will get from life only. Try to observe everything and live life without any hassle. No matter, the downfall is in business or an exam, how will you get to know your potential if you will not lose?
Tell us one thing, when you walk on the street, don’t you face any obstacle (Stone)? Do you, after seeing that small stone, get scared of crossing it? No! In the same way, your life problems are also a type of stone, some are bigger, or some are small.
So, instead of fearing from that hurdle, try to tackle the situation by removing that stone from your path. Always remember the more you will fall, the more you will shine like a diamond.
In the end, we both will say don’t make your life a pressure cooker. Enjoy your life by making it stress-free. No matter, happiness is big or small, never judge yourself by thinking of others.
Be happy with whatever you have. And, always be pleased with your life. And, learn from whatever you have. Don’t think of your exam as a pressure cooker. School and college is our education system, which gives us knowledge along with education. Better gain from it as an education.
From the small loss, if you are learning anything, it’s not a loss. Change the level of your thinking, life will itself get changed. In the end, we will say that try but don’t cry. So, we are ending up here. If you are looking for your favorite motivational speaker, HimSim to guide you at your most needy phase, write to us at Soulsthatwrite@gmail.com